OOok. I made a list before I met Topher. On it was "no lost boys". When they don't know who they are, or what they want or what they are doing in some major way (or all of the above) I just didn't want to deal anymore. You can meet the most amazing people, but when they are still getting in their own way and banging their heads against the wall... no. So was done with that.

Ditto potential and what people want to do versus who they are and what they DO do. My sympathies.